如何消除与父母的代沟英语作文 第1篇
与父母的代沟作文
1代沟
“你们不要说了，烦不烦人啊！”我扭过头不情愿地盯着爸爸妈妈，听着他们的喋喋不休的唠叨，你一言我一语的讥讽，我忍不住顶撞了一句……你说大人为什么这么喜欢训我们呢？如果有一点不如大人意的地方，脸就阴下来了，就像刚入春时下xxx的天空，略带一丝寒意，给人一种很压抑的感觉。这就是“大难临头”的征兆呀！接下来就是大声、激昂的训斥，我不屑的沉默着。然后是一阵阵“咆哮的吼声”，我无奈地摔门而去……
我多么希望：所有在父母与孩子之间有代沟或叛逆问题的家庭，都能找找自己的不足，站到对方的角度上想一想，这样才有益于家庭的和谐幸福！为什么不能和父母交朋友呢？为什么不能与父母交心呢？父母们可都是为我们好呀！
2代沟
其实有时候，人是很无辜的，特别是和父母有着严重代沟的时候。90后思想不同于70、80后的思想，因此，就会产生很多代沟问题，有的会很严重、有的却很轻微，程度大不相同。
现在大多数家庭都至少会拥有一台电脑，有的家庭却会是一人一台，因此，电脑这一电器已经不再成为90后的奢侈品，但随着电脑的加入，也给家庭带来了矛盾。
对此，我只有无奈可言了，谁叫他们是我父母呢？哎！我和父母间的关系越搞越糟糕了，这让原本理智的我都开始变傻了……什么时候才能解决这问题呢？大家都想知道吧！
3我和父母有代沟
天真的我总认为父母和儿女之间是没有一点代沟的，可是，我错了。我还真不明白那些大人一天在想些什么，一点也不“单纯“，而且总不能相信别人，甚至他们的儿女，我搞不懂他们是怎么想的，也搞不懂他们的一些做法的目的到底是什么。明明就是想到房间里看我们有没有打电脑，可是总回找一大堆借口到房间来，或是假装扔垃圾，或是帮我们到水，或是给我们拿水果来吃，他们还以为我们不知道他们的做法，每进房间出去以后都会偷笑。
一次，我在电脑里写作文，写了差不多3个多小时，妈妈一会给我送苹果来，一会给我到水来，一会又……每次送完东西就老往电脑那边嘌，我真不明白电脑有什么吸引他们的地方。写完作文我才发现，我桌子上有N多东西，我数了数，xxx10个苹果，5杯水，扔了12次垃圾，到我房间里共来了30次。唉！他们不觉得累我都觉得累了，还打扰到我写作文呢！现在我终于明白大人与小孩的代沟了！小孩永远比大人单纯许多，而大人，却总是神神秘秘的，而且思想比较老旧，最主要的是——他们从来不回光明正大的做他们想做的一些事情，总会给自己找一大堆借口，而且有点自做聪明。唉！“好笑”的大人！
4我们与父母的代沟
有人说：“世界上有种结，叫做心结，难以解开。世界上有扇门，叫心扉，难以敞开。世界上有条沟，叫代沟，难以逾越。”
随着年龄的增长，我慢慢地步入了成熟，慢慢地长大了，我再也没有和爸爸妈妈一起出去玩过，也再也没有时间和他们一起坐在沙发上温馨的看电视了，更不用说妈妈晚上悄悄地来到我的床头，给我讲故事了。妈妈渐渐地不愿和我谈心，听我说我的心里话了，甚至，不知道从何时开始，爸爸妈妈离我越来越远，我想追，却怎么也追不到了
爸爸妈妈似乎总是看我不顺眼，成天地数落我的不是，把我从头到尾都要数落一遍，他们开始总喜欢把我去和其他家的孩子攀比，老是在我面前谈论谁家的孩子考上了重点的高中，重点的大学，人家孩子怎么呢么聪明，呢么自觉。说得我的心情马上荡到了低谷。
就这样，在无形中，给我增添了许多压力。我常常觉得我只是个学习的机器，只是为了给爸爸妈妈有面子的工具而已，虽然我知道我的想法不对，因为那毕竟是我的父母。我被父母责怪的时候，我很委屈，觉得自己是最不幸的人。可是，又有谁能来听我诉说这些苦衷呢？我有时候，悄悄地独自一人哭过，尽管我知道哭地再伤心也无济于事，可是，往往我大哭一场之后，就觉得心里舒服多了。
每当夜幕降临的时候，客厅的灯仍然亮着，但是却少了我的身影和一份快乐。当我想去客厅倒一杯水，或者休息一会儿的时候，马上就能听到爸爸充满威严地声音：“出来干吗？快回去读书啊。”等我走出门的那一刻，那扇门又紧紧地关上了，留给我的只是一片黑暗。
现在，我上中学了，知道我和爸爸妈妈都应该有属于自己的房间，在各自休息的时候，房门自然可以关上。但是，我希望爸爸妈妈在关上房门的时候，不要把心灵之门也关上了。我真的希望，你们有时候，可以回过头来，看看我。
如何消除与父母的代沟英语作文 第2篇
Generation gap refers to the misunderstanding between the old and young. The term came into fashion after the 1980s. However, in recent years, the phenomenon is getting more and more fierce.
代沟指的是老人和年轻人之间的误解。这个词在20世纪80年代就开始流行。然而，近年来，这种现象是越来越激烈。
How does generation gap come into being? The first reason is that the two generations have grown up in different ages, thus they have different attitudes toward life. Secondly, due to having little in common with each other, they are unwilling to sit down and talk face to face. Besides, as modern life is so stressful, both of them are so busy with their study or work that they have not enough time to exchange their ideas.
代沟是如何产生的呢?第一个原因是这两代人是在不同时代长大的，所以他们对生活的态度是不同的。其次，由于由于彼此之间很少有共同之处，所以他们都不愿意坐下来面对面交谈。此外，由于现代生活的压力很大，大家都忙于学习或者工作，以至于都没有时间来交流彼此的'想法。
To bridge the generation gap is not easy at all, but we can do something to shorten it. For one thing, children should respect their parents as well as accept their good advice. For another, parents should not only show their love and care to the kids, but also support their good life view. As long as the old and young can understand each other, it would be more harmonious in family and world.
架起代沟的桥梁并不容易，但是我们可以做些事情来减小代沟。一方面，孩子们应该尊重他们的父母并接受他们的建议。另一方面，父母不仅要展示他们对孩子的爱和照顾，也要支持他们良好的人生观。只要老人和年轻人能够互相理解，家庭与世界之间会变得更加和谐。
如何消除与父母的代沟英语作文 第3篇
1. The problems of generation gap become more and more serious.
2. The causes of generation gap.
3. How to avoid the problem.
Nowadays, the problems of generation gap become more and more serious. The poor relationship between parents and their children is very common. Are these problems caused by the busy parents? Or, do the harsh family rules affect the relationship of parents and children?
Firstly, in most of the families in China both of the parents have to go out for work in order to earn more money to provide better environment for their lovely children. Unfortunately, this causes the rare communication between them and theft children, since these parents always take rest during leisure time. These parents and children cannot know deeply about each other and friction will appear. Secondly, parents who ask their children to be absolutely obedient is also one of the grave causes of the generation gap between them! They do not try to communicate with their children as their equals. Thus, misinterpretation of them may easily occur.
To solve these problems, the busy parents should sacrifice their spare time to communicate with their children actively and friendly to improve their relation. At the same time, they can also observe their children’s behavior at the same time in order to understand heir children’s personality as it can reduce the quarrel between them. Besides that, the parents should try to give up their absolute power in family so as lo make their children feel free to chat with them.
如何消除与父母的代沟英语作文 第4篇
“你们不要说了，烦不烦人啊！”我扭过头不情愿地盯着爸爸妈妈，听着他们的喋喋不休的唠叨，你一言我一语的讥讽，我忍不住顶撞了一句……你说大人为什么这么喜欢训我们呢？如果有一点不如大人意的地方，脸就阴下来了，就像刚入春时下xxx的天空，略带一丝寒意，给人一种很压抑的感觉。这就是“大难临头”的征兆呀！接下来就是大声、激昂的训斥，我不屑的沉默着。然后是一阵阵“咆哮的吼声”，我无奈地摔门而去……
我多么希望：所有在父母与孩子之间有与父母代沟作文或叛逆问题的家庭，都能找找自己的不足，站到对方的角度上想一想，这样才有益于家庭的和谐幸福！为什么不能和父母交朋友呢？为什么不能与父母交心呢？父母们可都是为我们好呀！
如何消除与父母的代沟英语作文 第5篇
In fact, sometimes people are very innocent, especially when they have a serious relationship with their parents. The thought of the post-90s is different from that of the Post-70s and post-80s. Therefore, there will be many problems, some of which will be very serious, some of which will be very slight, and the degree will be greatly different.
Nowadays, most families will have at least one computer, and some families will have one computer for one person. Therefore, computer is no longer a luxury of the post-90s, but with the addition of computers, it also brings conflicts to families.
The Internet world is rich and colorful. It changes thousands of times, makes us fascinated, broadens our horizons, makes us infatuated, makes us difficult to grasp, and even makes us lose ourselves, lose our direction, and sink in. As a post-90s I was one of them: because of the need of study, the teacher often asked us to search for some information and come back home, so I asked my parents for a computer. But God is against me. I didnt arrange any homework about checking data that month. Therefore, the computer has become a tool for me to watch movies and TV plays online. But I didnt forget to study.
QQ chatting on the Internet is the trend of the times. When we meet at ordinary times, we dare not say what we cant say. We can do it on the Internet. QQ farm, QQ ranch, QQ garden, QQ flying car, QQ restaurant, parking space And so on. It comes from life. There are many things on the Internet that can be realized, but only in the virtual world. These games wind Mo 105 whole class, even whole school, teacher, student, school police, cleaner Everyone is playing with this. What I havent played is very “earthy”, so I often play in my spare time, and its not too much fun! But these games are all “rubbish” in my parents eyes. Im not allowed to play them. Im allowed to use computers to check data, listen to music, write compositions and practice calligraphy Soon, I fell in love with QQ, because my parents didnt let me, I just played with my back. My mother scolded me. When I reasoned with him, she said bluntly, “play, play all day long. I knew I would not buy it. Ill pull out the Internet cable one day.”
To this, I have no choice but to say, who calls them my parents? Hey! The relationship between my parents and I is getting worse and worse, which makes me stupid When can we solve this problem? Everyone wants to know!
其实有时候，人是很无辜的，特别是和父母有着严重的时候。90后思想不同于70、80后的思想，因此，就会产生很多问题，有的会很严重、有的却很轻微，程度大不相同。
现在大多数家庭都至少会拥有一台电脑，有的家庭却会是一人一台，因此，电脑这一电器已经不再成为90后的奢侈品，但随着电脑的加入，也给家庭带来了矛盾。
对此，我只有无奈可言了，谁叫他们是我父母呢？哎！我和父母间的关系越搞越糟糕了，这让原本理智的我都开始变傻了……什么时候才能解决这问题呢？大家都想知道吧！
如何消除与父母的代沟英语作文 第6篇
Nowadays，the problem of generation gap becomes more and more serious. Based on the survey by our school, the poor relationship between parents and their children is very common. Are these problems caused by the busy parents? Or,do the harsh family rules affect their relationship?
Firstly, in most of the families in the US, both of the parents have to go out for work in order to earn more money to proveide better environment for their lovely children. Unfortunately, this causes the rare communication between them and their children, since these parents always take rest during leisure time. These parents and children cannot know deeply about each other, then friction is easy to appear. Therefore, a wide generation gap comes into being.
Secondly, parents who ask their children to be absolute obedient to them is also one of the grave causes of generation gap between them. Therefore, these children are not willing to communicate with their parents and most of these parents are not active to talk with their children. Thus, misunderstanding between them often occurs.
To solve these problems, the busy parents should sacrifice their spare time to communicate with their children actively so as to improve their relationship. At the same time, they can also observe their children's behavior in order to understand their children's personality and reduce the quarrel betweeen them.
Besides that, the parents should try to give up their absolute power in family to give a better image to their children since it can make their children feel free to chat with their parents. Then it is easy for the parents to approach their lovely children. Therefore, a close and harmonious relationship between parents and children appears.
In conclusion, to have a close relationship between parents and children, the parents should devote their leisure time to talking with their children and observing their childern's personality and give their children the approaching images. If so, this terrible phenomenon, generation gap, cannot occur any more.
如今，代沟的问题越来越严重。中气我们的学校的调查，父母与子女之间的关系不好很常见。这些问题是由忙碌的父母造成的?或者是严厉的家规影响他们的关系吗?
首先，在美国大多数的家庭中，父母双方都外出工作以赚取更多的钱来为他们可爱的孩子提供更好的环境。不幸的是，这导致他们和孩子之间很少有沟通，因为这些父母总是在闲暇时间休息。这些家长和孩子不能彼此深入了解，然后容易出现摩擦。因此，一个宽大的代沟就产生了。
其次，家长要孩子要绝对服从于他们也是他们之间产生代沟严重的原因。因此，这些孩子都不愿意与父母以及大多数的父母都不主动跟孩子沟通。因此，他们之间会经常发生误会。
为了解决这个问题，忙碌的父母应该放弃自己的业余时间和他们的孩子积极沟通以改善与他们的关系。同时，也可以为观察孩子的行为，要了解孩子的个性和减少与他们之间的争吵。
除此之外，父母应尽量放弃在家中的绝对权利,给的孩子树立一个更好的形象，因为它可以使孩子感到自由与父母聊天。然后父母可以很容易地接近他们的可爱的孩子们。因此，亲密融洽的关系在家长和孩子之间出现。
总之，父母和孩子之间要有亲密的关系，家长应该把闲暇时间给他们的孩子，观察孩子的个性以及给孩子平易近人的形象。如果这样的话，这个可怕的现象，代沟，就不会再发生了。
如何消除与父母的代沟英语作文 第7篇
The generation gap refers to the difference in attitude toward thing or the lack of understanding between young people and older folks。
In families as well as in society， the young and the older may not agree with each other on this and that from time to time。 Young people would llke to make as much money as they could and spend as much money as they could earn while older folks are easily satisfied with what they earn and save as much as possible。 Young people llke the exciting and deafening pop music while older folks prefer melodious folk-songs or classic music。 A boy and a glrl today may fall in love with each other as quick as lightning， while their parents or grand parents might trudge over a long distance before they kissed each other and became lovers when they were young。
However， we should not be amazed at the generation gap，for it is quite natural in the development of society。 The world is a changing world， in which everything keeps changing， generations of human beings included。 And changes lead to progress。
如何消除与父母的代沟英语作文 第8篇
According to the variety of social background, personal experience and personal emotion, differernt people have different opinions towards things.
Thus, there is no doubt that generation gap exists everywhere. We always find that there are big differences between us and the old generation.
We always regard the old are outdated, while they think us are crazy. They can’t bear the dress we like, the fashion we pursue or even our childish thinking. Instead, we could put up with their standpat thingking and their “feudal rulers”.
Thus, the generation gap becomes more and more obvious and serious. However, why don’t we realize that opinions can be changed, while people can’t.
So, we can think in an other way, learn to accept. It is certain that we can narrow the generation gap to live a more harmonious life.
如何消除与父母的代沟英语作文 第9篇
The 21st century, the thought of the teenagers, we and our beloved one generation, will never be able to melt together, seems to have no why, I do not know why. Adults like to impose their ideas in a new generation of us, and we, must also accept the ideology of _unreasonable_, if not accept, perhaps, in the eyes of an adult, our behavior is what is called a rebellious, not sensible, wings hard, but, you never know what we carry in our hearts, can only silently bear all this, buried our own thoughts, not move to the attraction.
We are the -- the future of The Times. We have our own dreams, we have our own in the future, we have our own life to live, all this, go to our own, you can never be with us life, the way back, but also to go on our own. Please let go of your generous hand, let us fly yourself.
Times are changing, the life also is changing. Different time, different people, have their own way. Dear, father, mother, we grow up, learn to walk, bumpy road ahead, let_s face it alone, raising more than ten years, we won_t forget, you also should have a rest.
如何消除与父母的代沟英语作文 第10篇
A few years ago, it was fashionable to talk about the generation gap. Parents complain that their children don't show due respect and obedience, while children complain that their parents don't understand them at all. Many critics believe that this is one of the reasons for our social structure.
The reason for the generation gap is that young people have to choose their own life in a traditional society. Children and their parents live in the same place, marry people they know and approve of, and often continue their family career in our society. People often move out of their homes at a very young age and meet people who their parents have never met Marriage or cohabitation, in our upward mobility society, parents often expect their children to be better than them.
However, these aspirations for children are another reason for their division, and they often find that they have little in common. Finally, the speed of change in our society is another reason. In traditional culture, people value wisdom, but in our society, a lifetime of knowledge may become obsolete.
Young people and old people seem to live in two very different worlds, separated by different skills and abilities. There is no doubt that the generation gap will remain a feature of our lives for some time to come. Its root causes lie in the and opportunity of our society, as well as the speed of social change.
中文翻译：
几年前，谈论代沟是一种时尚。父母抱怨孩子们没有对他们表现出应有的尊重和顺从，而孩子们则抱怨他们的父母根本不理解他们。许多评论家认为这是我们社会结构的一个原因，代沟的原因是机会年轻人必须在传统社会中选择自己的生活，孩子们和父母住在同一个地方，和父母认识并认可的人结婚，经常在我们的社会中继续家庭职业，人们常常在很小的时候就搬出家门，与父母素未谋面的人结婚或同居，在我们这个向上流动的社会中，父母往往期望他们的孩子比他们更好。
然而，对孩子的这些抱负是他们之间的另一个原因他们经常发现他们几乎没有共同点。最后，我们社会的变化速度是另一个原因在传统文化中，人们以智慧为价值，但在我们这个社会里，一辈子的知识可能会过时。年轻人和老年人似乎生活在两个截然不同的世界里，由不同的技能和能力分开。
毫无疑问，代沟在未来一段时间内仍将是我们生活的一个特点，其根源在于我们社会的自由和机会，以及社会快速变化的速度。
如何消除与父母的代沟英语作文 第11篇
最近和爸爸闹的总是不怎么愉快，爸爸自己闷闷地说：“我知道，你大了，我们有与父母代沟了，你大了，只和妈好。”我可以明显的听出你语气里有一份讲不好使失望，是嫉妒还是对自己的不满，总之，你难过，我痛心。
记得，我和你发生什么口角的时候，你总是发火或者说破什么关于与父母代沟的话，但是你可曾想过我啊，我难道真的认为和你有与父母代沟作吗？
每天和你晚上吃完饭了后，你总会拉着我的手，就像大手拉小手一样。你会以一位家长或是一位知己或很尊重的态度来和我聊天，其实每次我都装出十分不乐意的样子，但是我的心中认为这是一段十分享受的时光，因为这个时候终于有一个人静静的听我诉说，不论是东南西北或扯得更远的话题。
爸爸，你从来为什么只看见你对我的爱，却看不见我对你的爱呢，你为什么总是希望自己一个人付出，总是不求回报。你知不知道当你和我聊时，你说过，你觉得现在生活没什么意思，要不是我，的会离家远远的，你知道我嘴上只是对你嗔怪，其实心里有多伤心吗，你不管怎么样，你始终是我的爸爸朋友。
爸爸，你怎么会知道，我为有你这样一位爸爸而自豪，当同学总是在抱怨爸爸不体谅他们但是我总是在心里偷偷笑哩，因为我有一位理解我的爸爸，一位不论什么事都可以告诉他，他会替我想办法，他会在一个同龄人的角度上替我想办法。我很感谢他。
但是，你在还没有更深入的了解我，你就全盘否认了我们还可以好好交流，你就说我长大了，你就说我们有与父母代沟，其实，如果真的`有与父母代沟，只有我不能了解你，一定不会是我不愿和你交流，所以，我们之间永远没有与父母代沟，爸爸，我是很爱你的，所有，我知道我们之间永远没有与父母代沟。
如何消除与父母的代沟英语作文 第12篇
我们之间永远没有代沟
最近和爸爸闹的总是不怎么愉快，爸爸自己闷闷地说：“我知道，你大了，我们有代沟了，你大了，只和妈好。”我可以明显的听出你语气里有一份讲不好使失望，是嫉妒还是对自己的不满，总之，你难过，我痛心。
记得，我和你发生什么口角的时候，你总是发火或者说破什么关于代沟的话，但是你可曾想过我啊，我难道真的认为和你有代沟了吗?
每天和你晚上吃完饭了后，你总会拉着我的手，就像大手拉小手一样。你会以一位家长或是一位知己或很尊重的态度来和我聊天，其实每次我都装出十分不乐意的样子，但是我的心中认为这是一段十分享受的时光，因为这个时候终于有一个人静静的听我诉说，不论是东南西北或扯得更远的话题。
爸爸，你从来为什么只看见你对我的爱，却看不见我对你的爱呢，你为什么总是希望自己一个人付出，总是不求回报。你知不知道当你和我聊时，你说过，你觉得现在生活没什么意思，要不是我，的会离家远远的，你知道我嘴上只是对你嗔怪，其实心里有多伤心吗，你不管怎么样，你始终是我的爸爸朋友。
爸爸，你怎么会知道，我为有你这样一位爸爸而自豪，当同学总是在抱怨爸爸不体谅他们但是我总是在心里偷偷笑哩，因为我有一位理解我的爸爸，一位不论什么事都可以告诉他，他会替我想办法，他会在一个同龄人的角度上替我想办法。我很感谢他。
但是，你在还没有更深入的了解我，你就全盘否认了我们还可以好好交流，你就说我长大了，你就说我们有代沟，其实，如果真的有代沟，只有我不能了解你，一定不会是我不愿和你交流，所以，我们之间永远没有代沟，爸爸，我是很爱你的，所有，我知道我们之间永远没有代沟。
如何消除与父母的代沟英语作文 第13篇
Despite various improvements in all aspects of social life,the gen-eration gap between the grown-up and the young remains grows wider apart.
Nowadays,the youths do not blindly follow what their elders to widespread education,the influence of Western civilization,to certain extent,gives them a new code of philosophy,which is com-pletely different from that of their invisible cold wall thus ap-pears between the two generations.
Modern youths are trying to be more have their own interpretation for different matters;they also have their own reluctance to learn old teachings and saying becomes the constant friction between the two always introduce new old people,wedded to everything of the past,are hostile to changes and the generation gap becomes wider and wider.
After all,the young generation,like the old one,is made of flesh and young also need respect and they also have skills and good order to narrow the gap,both groups should respect each other,listen to the words of each other and should discuss their prob-lems patiently.
Most probably,these suggestions may help to solve the problem.
尽管社会生活的各个方面都有很多改善，但成年人与年轻人之间的代沟仍然不可逾越，而且变得愈加严重。
如今，年轻人并不盲从其长辈的言辞。由于教育的传播性，西方文明的影响，在某种程度上，给了他们新的处世准则，而这又完全不同于他们长辈的人生观。 因此，一条看不见的鸿沟出现在两代人之间。
当代的年轻人试图变得更加革命化。他们对不同的事物有他们自己的见解;他们也有他们自己的理想。 他们不愿学习陈规陋习和老套的说教，这造成了两代人之间不断的摩擦。 他们总是带来新变化，而墨守旧习的老年人则反对改变，因此代沟变得越来越严重。
但不管怎样，年轻的一代与老年人--样也是血肉之躯。 年轻人也需要尊敬，他们也有技能和好的观点。为了缩小代沟，两代人应该彼此尊敬，听一听对方的意见，并且耐心地讨论他们的问题。
也许，这些建议有助于问题的解决。
如何消除与父母的代沟英语作文 第14篇
Parents say that children do not show them proper respect and obedience, while children complain that their parents do not understand them. This phenomenon is often referred to as the generation gap. What then are the causes of the generation gap?
One important cause of the generation gap is the chance that young people have to choose their way of life. In more traditional societies, when children grow up, they are expected to live in the same area as their parents, to marry people that their parents know and agree to, and to continue the family occupation. In modern society, young people often travel a great distance for their education, move out of the family at an early age, marry or live with people whom their parents have never met, and choose occupations different from those of their parents.
In the easily changing society, parents often expect their children to do better than they did: to find better jobs, to make more money; and to do all the things that they were unable to do. Often, however, the strong desire that parents have for their children are another cause of the disagreement between them. Often, they discover that they have very little in comMon with each other.
Finally, the speed at which changes take place in modern society is another cause of the gap between the generations. In a traditional culture, elderly people are valued for their wisdom, but in modern society, the knowledge of a lifetime may become out of date overnight. The young and the old seem to live in two very different worlds, separated by different skills and abilities.
No doubt, the generation gap will continue to be a future of our life for some time to come. Its causes are rooted in the changes of our society, and in the rapid speed at which society changes.
家长说，孩子不显示他们应有的尊重和服从，而孩子们抱怨说，他们的父母不理解他们。这种现象通常称为代沟。那么，什么是产生差距的原因是什么?
代沟的一个重要原因是，青年人有机会选择自己的生活方式。在较为传统的社会，当孩子长大后，他们将住在同一地区作为他们的父母，结婚的人，他们的父母知道并同意，并继续对家庭的占领。在现代社会中，青年人往往要走很长的距离对他们的教育，走出家庭在早期年龄，结婚或他们的父母生活在一起的人从来没有见过，他们选择的职业从他们易不同社会的变化，家长们往往希望他们的孩子比他们做得更好：寻找更好的工作，使更多的钱，并尽一切的事情，他们无法做到。然而，通常的强烈愿望，父母为他们的子女，也表明了它们之间的分歧的原因。通常，他们发现，他们彼此之间共同之处很少。
最后，在这些变化的速度在现代社会中的地位是另一代人之间的差距的原因。在传统的文化，老年人的价值为自己的智慧，但在现代社会中，一种知识用一生可能一夜之间变得过时了。年轻的和年长的人划入两个完全不同的不同的技能和怀疑分离的.世界，代沟将会继续成为我们生活的一段时间内的未来。其原因是根植于我们社会的变化，社会在快速变化。
如何消除与父母的代沟英语作文 第15篇
静静的站在大海边，感受着那宽广、蔚蓝，是多么的惬意，多么的令人心旷神怡。 但可曾想过平静的海面下，有着汹涌的洋流，还有那深不可测的海沟，一旦坠入，便万劫不复。其实平静的中，也同样有着汹涌的角逐，也同样有着酷似海沟的沟壑，我 们称之为“代沟”。
他们稳重内敛，不喜欢我的嚣张我的任性，要求我们做到“凡 事预则立不预则废”做到未雨绸缪。
他们对我们期望很高，给了我们一双沉重的翅膀，让我们像一 只孤独的大雁，疲惫的飞翔。
他们不以为意，即使我们手捧一大叠奖状，他们也少有表扬， 认为这是没必要的。
他们很固执，不厌其烦的让我们去做他们认为对我们有益的事 ，却忘记了我们的兴趣。
他们矗立在我们生活中，对我们无微不至，甚至连吃葡萄时都 帮我们剥皮。
他们很担心，关注着我们的一举一动。总喜欢说一大堆的话来 教训我们，他们告诉我们不懂的事就不要说它没道理，告诉我们无论受多大的委屈都要 退一步海阔天空。
我们很嚣张、很顽皮、很任性，讨厌他们的原则与保守。
我们很努力的学习，却总不能达到他们想要的。最终有可能让 我们放弃那一份本该的激情与活力。
我们不需要物质上的奖励，但任何人都需要精神上的动力。
我们好动、好玩、好嬉戏。他们却总要带我们去听音乐，看展 览，认为这样可以让我们留下美好的回忆。
我们想说，能不能让我们自己来试一试。要知道“宝剑锋从磨 砺出，梅花香自苦寒来”。
我们还想说：没有他们的束缚，我们依然可以不改变初衷，没 有他们的导航，我们依然可以不埋葬向往……
此时我想到了xxx，想到他发怒时他母亲既无奈又心痛的回 避着，想到他与地坛对话后，那种xxx里的痛与悔。
的确，父母给了我们弥足珍贵的生命，让我们来到这个社会感 受喜怒哀乐。小时候，无微不至的关心着我们，宠爱着我们，尽毕身最大的努力帮我们 握着双桨，不辞劳苦的为我们摆渡。可是随着时间的推移，在“渐”的漩流中，我们之 间出现了酷似海沟的代沟。在彼此不理解，不了解的境况下，难道真的不能递给我们一 支浆，让我们自己掌握方向？难道代沟真的“不可桥之乎？”
如何消除与父母的代沟英语作文 第16篇
In modern society, there is often a hck of understanding between parents and children. Purents dislike what their children think and do, while children often complain that their parents can not understand them. This is often called generation gap.
There are some reasons for the existence of generation gap. First, the environment in which young people now living is quite different from that of their parents'. Therefore, they often hold different opinions on various problenas in life. Second, disparity in age also leads to misunderstanding. Young people want to do everything as they like, while older people often can't help interfering when they think what the young people are doing is wrong. This inevitably leads to disharmony.
In rny opinion, generation gap can be bridged as long as both parents and children are willing to make efforts. They may have an open talk and tell each other what they think about certain problems. They should be considerate enough to realize that each generation has its own advantages and disadvantages. Their openness and consideration probably will result in a much better relationship between purents and children.
如何消除与父母的代沟英语作文 第17篇
Generation gap, simply is the idea of the thoughts of the people of different age groups for gap caused by the psychological distance. Just as a ditch, separated by the generation of people, affect the understanding and communication between two generations. But in the new century, the generation gap exists not only between the generation and the next generation, and separated by 10 years, 8 years in age between people, even between senior and junior in the university, there will be amazing. People often say, the generation gap is the trace of time, the pace of change. In that case, a generation gap is natural, but there is no generation gap is not natural, so, the generation gap phenomenon is easy to be understood. But generation gap is after all the difficulties in communication, and easy to increase the likelihood of formation of prejudice and discrimination, one light on either side of the generation gap, mutual understanding, or hostile, so we also should through various channels for various efforts to bridge the generation gap, to fill the gap. Actually, the generation gap is not a physical existence, but a psychological, contact, can let once broken psychological link between generation and generation succeeded, so as to achieve smooth communication and get along with harmony.
Objective existence of the generation gap and calmly treat the generation gap, not only help yourself, also benefit others.
The generation gap is often the deviations in understanding the psychological cause. People choose the different Angle of information, determine someone looks at changes and differences, some focus on the same and similar. So people can not accept directly or next generation and the differences of their generation, often associated with the selectivity of intellectual.
The child's world, very different from adults, geared pretty tube, will hinder greatly the development of the child. This is lu xun said a word.
如何消除与父母的代沟英语作文 第18篇
天真的我总认为父母和儿女之间是没有一点与父母代沟作文的，可是，我错了。我还真不明白那些大人一天在想些什么，一点也不“单纯“，而且总不能相信别人，甚至他们的儿女，我搞不懂他们是怎么想的，也搞不懂他们的一些做法的目的到底是什么。明明就是想到房间里看我们有没有打电脑，可是总回找一大堆借口到房间来，或是假装扔垃圾，或是帮我们到水，或是给我们拿水果来吃，他们还以为我们不知道他们的做法，每进房间出去以后都会偷笑。
一次，我在电脑里写作文，写了差不多3个多小时，妈妈一会给我送苹果来，一会给我到水来，一会又……每次送完东西就老往电脑那边嘌，我真不明白电脑有什么吸引他们的地方。写完作文我才发现，我桌子上有N多东西，我数了数，xxx10个苹果，5杯水，扔了12次垃圾，到我房间里共来了30次。唉！他们不觉得累我都觉得累了，还打扰到我写作文呢！现在我终于明白大人与小孩的与父母代沟作文了！小孩永远比大人单纯许多，而大人，却总是神神秘秘的，而且思想比较老旧，最主要的是——他们从来不回光明正大的做他们想做的一些事情，总会给自己找一大堆借口，而且有点自做聪明。唉！“好笑”的大人！
如何消除与父母的代沟英语作文 第19篇
Nowadays，many young people have new ideas which are different from their parents. They argue even fight with their parents from time to time only because they wouldn’t like to do what their parents want to. In my opinions, children and their parents should understand and respect each other, so
There are many reasons for this phenomenon. Firstly, young people have different lifestyle, different education and different friends from their parents, different age will shape a new generation. Secondly, the young are still too young to face the society but they don’t realize, so they often think whatever they do is right, which leads them not listen to their parents’ some useful and valuable advice. Finally, some parents only order children to do something rather than discuss with them.
As far as I’m concern, everybody should join hands to solve this problem. Both sides should respect the other, when parents have more communications with the young, many conflicts will not happen. Similarly，if children can understand their parents’ original intention，they will not always opposite their parents。
如何消除与父母的代沟英语作文 第20篇
When I was young, my family bought a computer very early and had a broadband network. At that time, when my father and mother were at work, they locked me at home, and I was like a chicken in a cage. Little by little, I began to notice the “iron man” at home -- because he was so far away from his father that he knew what was happening in foreign countries. Because of it, dad can always watch movies and play games. Because of it, mom has made so many friends. Slowly, I was in other classmates' “guidance”, also played a “legendary” online game, because my technology is good, so, my level is getting higher and higher. The man who had just started killing chickens became a master of martial arts. My technique is good, and the equipment is good, so many people in the network want to “worship me as a teacher”. My little vanity and pride were satisfied. Sometimes after losing a game, I kept buying better equipment and looking for that person “revenge”. This vicious cycle, I became more and more obsessed with the game. I'm not impressed even if my friends are playing very exciting games outside. Therefore, I have put myself into a state of loneliness, making me become a person who can only play games.
Thanks to mom and dad I found this in time, and take the initiative to find I talk, encouraged me to speak the truth, at that time, my in the mind of the lonely was more than I could bear, he said: “I am very lonely, I want to play computer games.” When my father and mother heard these words, they volunteered to work for me. Through this conversation, I finally got it. Things in real life are also wonderful, and relying on this virtual world is a sign of weakness. At the same time, I understand my father and mother's pains.
Through this matter, I understand that communication is the key to open the heart knot, communication is the foundation of life road, because there is communication to have our wonderful today! I hope you can communicate more and create a better future together.
如何消除与父母的代沟英语作文 第21篇
According to the variety of social background, personal experience and personal emotion, differernt people have different opinions towards things. Thus, there is no doubt that generation gap exists everywhere. We always find that there are big differences between us and the old generation. We always regard the old are outdated, while they think us are crazy. They can’t bear the dress we like, the fashion we pursue or even our childish thinking. Instead, we could put up with their standpat thingking and their “feudal rulers”. Thus, the generation gap becomes more and more obvious and serious. However, why don’t we realize that opinions can be changed, while people can’t. So, we can think in an other way, learn to accept. It is certain that we can narrow the generation gap to live a more harmonious life.
由于社会背景，个人的经历和个人情感的不同，不同的人对事情有不同的看法。因此，毫无疑问代沟随处可见。 我们总是发现我们和老一代之间有很大的差异。我们总是认为他们思想守旧，而他们却觉得我们疯狂。他们不能忍受我们喜欢的衣服，我们追求的时尚甚至是我们幼稚的思维方式。相反，我们觉得他们思想保守，“封建专制”。因此，代沟越来越明显和严重。但是，为什么我们没有意识到想法是可以改变的，而人却是不可以的。所以，我们可以尝试换位思考，学会去接受。可以肯定的是，我们可以缩小代沟过上更和谐的生活。
如何消除与父母的代沟英语作文 第22篇
According to the variety of social background, personal experience and personal emotion, differernt people have different opinions towards things. Thus, there is no doubt that generation gap
exists everywhere.
We always find that there are big differences between us and the old generation. We always regard the old are outdated, while they think us are crazy. They can't bear the dress we like, the fashion we pursue or even our childish thinking. Instead, we could put up with their standpat thingking and their “feudal rulers”。
Thus, the generation gap becomes more and more obvious and serious. However, why don't we realize that opinions can be changed, while people can't. So, we can think in an other way, learn to accept. It is certain that we can narrow the generation gap to live a more harmonious life.
如何消除与父母的代沟英语作文 第23篇
Generation gap nowadays, there is a lack of understanding between parents and children. Children always complain that their parents are out of date, but parents do not approve of their children's words and deeds, thus forming a huge generation gap. This generation gap is still very big.
For many reasons, children want to freely choose their friends, choose their own cl in school, plan their own future, and earn and spend money by themselves Manage your life in a more independent way than many parents allow. Moreover, children want to be understood by their parents, but most parents don't know their children very well. They think it is their responsibility to educate their children.
They want them to be obedient and perform well in school. Therefore, in my opinion, misunderstanding is often due to the tendency of parents to interfere in their children's daily activities. Most problems between parents and children can be solved through joint efforts of both parties to enhance mutual understanding.
中文翻译：
代沟如今，父母和孩子之间往往缺乏了解，孩子们总是抱怨父母过时，而父母却不认可孩子们的言行，从而形成了一个巨大的代沟，这种代沟仍然很大，原因很多，孩子们想自由选择自己的朋友，在学校里选择自己的班级，规划自己的未来，自己挣钱和花钱，通常以比许多父母所允许的更独立的方式管理自己的生活。而且，小孩子希望得到父母的理解，但大多数父母并不十分了解他们的孩子，他们认为教育孩子是他们的责任，他们希望他们听话，在学校表现好。因此，在我看来，误解经常是因为父母倾向于干涉孩子的日常活动，父母和孩子之间的大多数问题可以通过双方的共同努力来解决，增进相互了解：消除小孩与父母之间的代沟英语作文。
如何消除与父母的代沟英语作文 第24篇
The generation gap refers to the difference in attitude toward thing or the lack of understanding between young people and older folks.
In families as well as in society, the young and the older may not agree with each other on this and that from time to time. Young people would llke to make as much money as they could and spend as much money as they could earn while older folks are easily satisfied with what they earn and save as much as possible. Young people llke the exciting and deafening pop music while older folks prefer melodious folk-songs or classic music. A boy and a glrl today may fall in love with each other as quick as lightning, while their parents or grand parents might trudge over a long distance before they kissed each other and became lovers when they were young.
However, we should not be amazed at the generation gap,for it is quite natural in the development of society. The world is a changing world, in which everything keeps changing, generations of human beings included. And changes lead to progress.
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如何消除与父母的代沟英语作文 第25篇
有人说：“世界上有种结，叫做心结，难以解开。世界上有扇门，叫心扉，难以敞开。世界上有条沟，叫代沟，难以逾越。”
随着年龄的增长，我慢慢地步入了成熟，慢慢地长大了，我再也没有和爸爸妈妈一起出去玩过，也再也没有时间和他们一起坐在沙发上温馨的看电视了，更不用说妈妈晚上悄悄地来到我的床头，给我讲故事了。妈妈渐渐地不愿和我谈心，听我说我的心里话了，甚至，不知道从何时开始，爸爸妈妈离我越来越远，我想追，却怎么也追不到了
爸爸妈妈似乎总是看我不顺眼，成天地数落我的不是，把我从头到尾都要数落一遍，他们开始总喜欢把我去和其他家的孩子攀比，老是在我面前谈论谁家的孩子考上了重点的高中，重点的大学，人家孩子怎么呢么聪明，呢么自觉。说得我的心情马上荡到了低谷。
就这样，在无形中，给我增添了许多压力。我常常觉得我只是个学习的机器，只是为了给爸爸妈妈有面子的工具而已，虽然我知道我的想法不对，因为那毕竟是我的父母。我被父母责怪的时候，我很委屈，觉得自己是最不幸的人。可是，又有谁能来听我诉说这些苦衷呢？我有时候，悄悄地独自一人哭过，尽管我知道哭地再伤心也无济于事，可是，往往我大哭一场之后，就觉得心里舒服多了。
每当夜幕降临的时候，客厅的灯仍然亮着，但是却少了我的身影和一份快乐。当我想去客厅倒一杯水，或者休息一会儿的时候，马上就能听到爸爸充满威严地声音：“出来干吗？快回去读书啊。”等我走出门的那一刻，那扇门又紧紧地关上了，留给我的只是一片黑暗。
现在，我上中学了，知道我和爸爸妈妈都应该有属于自己的房间，在各自休息的时候，房门自然可以关上。但是，我希望爸爸妈妈在关上房门的时候，不要把心灵之门也关上了。我真的希望，你们有时候，可以回过头来，看看我。
我知道了，面对父母，我们不能一味地去讨厌，去排斥，毕竟。。。他们是为了我们好，如果，有意见或者心事，可以尝试去和父母谈一下，然而我也希望每个学生的父母也能为自己的孩子想一想，换位思考一下，适当的让孩子放松下头脑，这样的话，我们所谓的代沟，也就自然不会出现了。
如何消除与父母的代沟英语作文 第26篇
Nowadays， the problems of generation gap bee more and more serious。 The poor relationship between parents and their children is very mon。 Are these problems caused by the busy parents? Or， do the harsh family rules affect the relationship of parents and children?
Firstly， in most of the families in China both of the parents have to go out for work in order to earn more money to provide better environment for their lovely children。 Unfortunately， this causes the rare munication between them and theft children， since these parents always take rest during leisure time。 These parents and children cannot know deeply about each other and friction will appear。 Secondly， parents who ask their children to be absolutely obedient is also one of the grave causes of the generation gap between them! They do not try to municate with their children as their equals。 Thus， misinterpretation of them may easily occur。
To solve these problems， the busy parents should sacrifice their spare time to municate with their children actively and friendly to improve their relation。 At the same time， they can also observe their children's behavior at the same time in order to understand heir children's personality as it can reduce the quarrel between them。 Besides that， the parents should try to give up their absolute power in family so as lo make their children feel free to chat with them。
如何消除与父母的代沟英语作文 第27篇
父母与孩子之间代沟英语作文
Generation Gap
A few years ago it was fashionable to speak of a generation gap. Parents complained that children didn't show them proper respect and obedience, while children complained that their parents didn't understand them at all. Many critics argue that it is built into the fabric of our society.
One cause of the generation gap is the opportunity that young people have to choose their own life. In traditional socieries, children live in the same area as their parents, marry people their parents know and approve of, and often continue the family occupation. In our society, people often move out of the home at an early age, marry or live with people their parents have never met, and choose occupations that are rather different.
In our upwardly mobile society, parents often expect their children to be better than them. However, these ambitions for their children are another cause of the division between them. Often they discover that they have very little in common.
Finally, the speed of change in our society is another cause of it. In a traditional culture, people are valued for their wisdom, but in our society the knowledge of a lifetime may become out of date. The young and the old seem to live in two very different worlds, separated by different skills and abilities.
No doubt, the generation gap will continue to be a feature of our life for some time to come. Its causes are rooted in the freedoms and opportunities of our society, and in the rapid pace at which society changes.
几年前，代沟是一个非常流行的词。父母抱怨孩子对他们没有应有的尊重和服从;而孩子们却抱怨父母根本不理解他们。很多批评家指出，这成为了我们社会结构的组
成部分。
造成代沟的原因之一，是现在年轻人对自己的生活有了更多的机会进行选择。传统的社会里，孩子和他们的.父母生活在同一个地方，与父母认识并认可的人结婚，常常几代人做着同样的工作。而在现代的社会中，人们年轻时就离开家，他们的结婚对象可能父母从来没见过，他们选择的职业也与祖辈大相径庭。
在这个人往高处发展的社会，父母总是盼望着孩子能比自己过得好。然而这种对孩子的期望也是造成他们之间分歧的另一个原因。其结果常常是发现父母和孩子之间共
同之处很少。
最后，现代社会的飞速变化也是形成代沟的一个原因。传统社会里，人们往往以智慧来衡量一个人。而现在，一种知识用一生的观点已经过时了。不同的技术，不同的能力，将年轻人和年长的人划入两个完全不同的世界。
毫无疑问，在今后相当一段时间里，代沟将会继续成为我们生活的一个特征。它产生的原因源于社会的自由和选择，源于社会日新月异的快速发展。
如何消除与父母的代沟英语作文 第28篇
Generation gap refers to the misunderstanding between the old and young.
The term came into fashion after the 1980s. However, in recent years, the phenomenon is getting more and more fierce.
How does generation gap come into being? The first reason is that the two generations have grown up in different ages, thus they have different attitudes toward life.
Secondly, due to having little in common with each other, they are unwilling to sit down and talk face to face.
Besides, as modern life is so stressful, both of them are so busy with their study or work that they have not enough time to exchange their ideas.
To bridge the generation gap is not easy at all, but we can do something to shorten it.
For one thing, children should respect their parents as well as accept their good advice. For another, parents should not only show their love and care to the kids, but also support their good life view.
As long as the old and young can understand each other, it would be more harmonious in family and world.
如何消除与父母的代沟英语作文 第29篇
The generation gap is unavoidable in almost every family, which brings about a number of conflicts in a family. In my opinion, to limit the bad effects of the generation gap, each family should use the following three methods:
First of all, it is important that family members discuss openly about their pleasures or sadness in childhood in family gatherings. This activity does not only create a close relationship but also help build up understanding among all members. For instance, once children are aware that their grandparents and even their parents did not have a good upbringing during their hard childhood, they will stop complaining about the previous generations' obsoleteness. In the meantime, once old people realize young people are nurtured in a new modern way, it is easy for them to be tolerant of young people's new habits or hobbies.
Secondly, people of each generation should not develop a very high feeling about themselves. In order to do that, they should not think that they are the only right people in their family because each person has his or her own limitations. Teenagers would realize that their parents have to struggle with pain to support them financially, and they would stop rebelling their strictness.
Parents would realize that their children's new style does no harm to their studies and stop imposing their own unsuitable standards on their children.
Finally, the generation gap and its bad effects can be limited if all members cooperate to build up a close-knit family relationship and a harmonious atmosphere in which they are open and tolerant of each other. I strongly believe that each family, by doing that, can enjoy a cozy atmosphere with minimum interference by the generation gap.
如何消除与父母的代沟英语作文 第30篇
In modern society, there is often a hck of understanding between parents and children. Purents dislike what their children think and do, while children often complain that their parents can not understand them. This is often called generation gap.
There are some reasons for the existence of generation gap. First, the environment in which young people now living is quite different from that of their parents'。 Therefore, they often hold different opinions on various problenas in life. Second, disparity in age also leads to misunderstanding. Young people want to do everything as they like, while older people often can't help interfering when they think what the young people are doing is wrong. This inevitably leads to disharmony.
In rny opinion, generation gap can be bridged as long as both parents and children are willing to make efforts. They may have an open talk and tell each other what they think about certain problems. They should be considerate enough to realize that each generation has its own advantages and disadvantages. Their openness and consideration probably will result in a much better relationship between purents and children.
如何消除与父母的代沟英语作文 第31篇
On the discussion of _generation gap_, each generation has its own different living habits, each generation has a different way of thinking, so the _generation gap_ quietly created like a mountain, people of different ages are completely separated, so that they can't understand each other in the eyes of young people. The old generation always likes to restrict their children's year with the old looks and old ideas At that time, it was easy for young people to accept new things. They always thought that the older generation was old, and they believed that there were insurmountable differences between the two generations, and they were unwilling to accept the instruction of their parents.
Young people like to pursue stars, make friends, like cults, and like to dance on the Internet. All these are very solemn things. A good example is a good color of black hair, but what can't be tolerated is simple Therefore, more and more terrible events have happened: more and more young people and their families are at odds with each other, and they run away from home in anger.
Some of them even go on the road of no return. Many children and their parents meet with their parents for lack of communication, and they regard them as enemies. What a chilling thing is that the generation gap makes parents make sad efforts and make their children silent, which makes them become negative The family has lost its happiness.
The generation gap has seriously affected our life. How important is it to eliminate this gap? However, in order to eliminate it, we, as parents, must make joint efforts, communicate more with children, let children express their true inner thoughts, and find ways to relieve their pressure. A good friend of a child should also pledge allegiance to their parents After all, parents are here.
We should learn good things from them. At the same time, they should sympathize with the hardships of housework and share those worries for them, instead of demanding and getting unlimited what I want. No matter how the development changes, narrowing the generation gap is conducive to social progress and development.
In the face of the ever-changing era, each of us should know more about it The generation gap between us will surely be smoothed down if we over demand more tolerance and curb a fuss.
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